Sex and the Single Girl

Sex is a taboo subject for some and on the tip of the tongue for so many others. How do we know what's right and what's wrong when it comes to sex-morally, personally, and even socially? This is a challenging question and one which deserves some time and thought. Let's not rush through this.

.Date your new guy for at least a few weeks before you get naked with him. It's time to revert back to those high school days of heavy petting and kissing. Let me paint a picture for you: Wrap your legs around Mr. Wonderful and gently kiss his neck. Work your way up to his earlobes and finally, explore his lips ever so lightly. Kiss him softly, sweetly, and as your passion for one another grows, part his lips and teach him the fine art of French kissing.

Allow him to lie on top of you on the sofa and let him explore your body while you remain dressed. No matter how hot and bothered you become, you must not give in to temptation. As a courtesy (yes, you're always gracious), warn him that there will be no skin-on-skin contact just yet. Let him know that you want to get comfortable with his body and his touch, first. He won't mind. In fact, he'll love it. It will give him something to look forward to. Now that you're comfortable with each other and you're confident he's not just after one thing, you can take it to the next level. His hand on your bare skin will feel like heaven to both of you, even more so now than if you had rushed into it. Always remember, we value most what is hardest to get. So don't just play hard to get; be hard to get.

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